Bend The Rules

Posted on 16/04/2019 by littlegem

Rules We have no written contract for our dynamic. As fun as coming up with an official document sounds (that’s… Read more Bend The Rules

Safe Words and Actions Explored

Posted on 02/04/2019 by littlegem

Safe Words Safe words are something we introduced into our play as soon as we started our D/s power exchange.… Read more Safe Words and Actions Explored

Posted on 26/03/2019 by littlegem

Bondage is something we use quite a lot and I hadn’t really thought about it as bondage as such. When… Read more All About Bondage

It is a sunny spring afternoon in 2012. A younger littlegem and I are heading to the coast, not to… Read more Bondage: A Prequel

Orgasms feels great, I can highly recommend them. That deep need for orgasm can feel primal, a way of asserting… Read more Come Down

I have always been a very sexual person and enjoyed orgasms a lot. Discovering myself sexually when I was quite… Read more Orgasms

I have come to accept that I feel vulnerable more often than I really want to. Since beginning a D/s… Read more The Fragile Box

I have been thinking about this word a lot recently, being vulnerable. Not just because I saw it as… Read more Feeling Vulnerable

At the beginning of our D/s journey littlegem asked me to be her dominant as well as being a husband.… Read more Submission Impossible