This site is all about our life in a Dominant and submissive relationship; the good, the bad and the naughty bits.

I would say there is nothing particularly different about us, our relationship looks very traditional from the outside. I am a stay at home mum of our two young children and PurpleSole my husband brings home the bacon so to speak… He just also happens to be my Master and Dominant. Our D/s journey started in early 2018 although we have been together for over 10 years. It has certainly changed our lives in an amazing way and will hopefully continue to do so as we learn and grow together.

We have decided to start our blog as I think putting thoughts and feelings down in writing will help us further understand ourselves and unravel the whirlwind of D/s and it’s affects it has on us both individually and together. We are hoping to write some of our posts together so you can see things from both perspectives of a Dominant and a submissive. If you wanted to read about the beginning for PurpleSole or myself, littlegem you can follow the links on our respective names.

What has been a big help for us is connecting with others in the same lifestyle, it really puts things in perspective to know that others share the same thoughts and have similar problems that we do from time to time. Please don’t hesitate to get in contact, we would love to hear from anyone on a similar road to us. Also feel free to comment on our blog!