This site is all about our life in a Dominant and submissive relationship; the good, the bad and the naughty bits.
We are a married couple living in a Dominant and submissive lifestyle since early 2018. Together we have a young family and try to fit our kinky lifestyle around all the pressures of life. It has certainly changed our lives in an amazing way and will hopefully continue to do so as we learn and grow together.
We have done a variety of different roleplays to add a bit of fun into our dynamic. It may feel a bit silly sometimes but it doesn’t matter in the end as long as you are having fun. We have had some interesting times as littlegem has played a prostitute, a stripper and a sexy reindeer. PurpleSole has also got in on the action, being a Headmaster to a naughty school girl.
Puppy is gem’s pet persona, she enjoys being out on a leash and to follow her Masters commands, some of the time at least. We pet play our way, since there is a minority of female puppy players. PurpleSole enjoys the control from putting littlegem on a leash and seeing her with a beautiful fluffy tail.
Ruby is the name of littlegem’s little persona. She likes rainbows, stickers and My Little Pony. She can appear at any time and she is always up for fun, usually at the expense of her Daddy. Allowing littlegem to have the freedom to express herself in this way has been very beneficial for her well-being as it allows her to focus on the little things that make her smile.
Spanking, impact, knives, all things that cause pain. A good example of this is when when PurpleSole decided to carry out an interrogation scene on a ‘secret spy’, tormenting littlegem’s character into giving him the infomation he needed. We have also played with our ElectraStim numerous times to really get the pulses racing.
PurpleSole and littlegem
Why We Blog
We have decided to start our blog as I think putting thoughts and feelings down in writing will help us further understand ourselves and unravel the whirlwind of D/s and its effects it has on us both individually and together. We are hoping to write some of our posts together so you can see things from both perspectives of a Dominant and a submissive. If you wanted to read about the beginning for PurpleSole or littlegem you can follow the links on our respective names.
What has been a big help for us is connecting with others in the same lifestyle, it really puts things in perspective to know that others share the same thoughts and have similar problems that we do from time to time. Please don’t hesitate to get in contact, we would love to hear from anyone on a similar road to us.
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