This site is all about our life in a Dominant and submissive relationship; the good, the bad and the naughty bits.
We are a married couple living in a Dominant and submissive lifestyle since early 2018. Together we have a young family and try to fit our kinky lifestyle around all the pressures of life. It has certainly changed our lives in an amazing way and will hopefully continue to do so as we learn and grow together.
We both enjoy taking photos, during scenes or outside. You can see some of PurpleSole’s favourites in our gallery.
We have a wide range of kinks, but you may see these pop up every so often:
Puppy is gem’s pet persona, she enjoys being out on a leash and to follow her Masters commands.
Ruby is the name of littlegem’s little persona. She likes rainbows, stickers and My Little Pony.
PurpleSole and littlegem
Why We Blog
We have decided to start our blog as I think putting thoughts and feelings down in writing will help us further understand ourselves and unravel the whirlwind of D/s and its effects it has on us both individually and together. We are hoping to write some of our posts together so you can see things from both perspectives of a Dominant and a submissive. If you wanted to read about the beginning for PurpleSole or littlegem you can follow the links on our respective names.
What has been a big help for us is connecting with others in the same lifestyle, it really puts things in perspective to know that others share the same thoughts and have similar problems that we do from time to time. Please don’t hesitate to get in contact, we would love to hear from anyone on a similar road to us.
Also feel free to comment on our blog!